Tekanan Nikah

Tekanan Nikah

Hi assalamualaikum. Thankyou admin sbb sudi publishkan my story. Before this baca story org je but today tergerak hati nk share kisah sendiri dkt sini sbb I loves the positive vibes from all of you. So I think this is the best platform untuk minta pendapat. Do give me some support okay :)

Let me introduce a bit about myself and my partner. Both of us, 26 years old and working on private sectors. Aku kerja dkt KL, Dia kerja dkt Selangor. Aku anak sulung pmpn, Dia anak bongsu. Total gaji bersih kitaorg (if combined) just arounds RM3K only. Belum tolak kos-kos yang berkaitan. Both of us xde savings for nikah sbb masing-masing baru start kerja awal tahun 2017.

Ikut hati nk nikah nextyear,2018 (27y/o) tp bila tgk tahap kewangan masing-masing mcm x nmpk jalan je. Maka terpaksalah me-redha-kan diri utk postponed to another year, 2019 (28y/o). So it means both of us ada 1 tahun (dari sekarang) untuk kumpul duit nikah – level ikat perut, maybe. Dia savings RM1K/bulan, Aku RM500/bulan. Kiraan kasar, End of 2018 – The total will be arounds RM20K.
***NOTA: Both majlis guna duit savings sendiri. No loans. No family supports.

The problem start bilamana family aku and family dia nk kitaorg disatukan dlm masa terdekat. Paling lewat nextyear. Dorg bising atas faktor usia kitaorg. Aku jd sedih bilamana dorg keep comparekan waktu dorg zaman dulu kala, umur 26y/o dh nikah & 27y/o ada anak sorang. Tp kitaorg? Masih terumbang-ambing lagi.

On our majlis; For my family, it will be the 1st majlis and for his family, it will be the last one. Hmm can you imagine mcm mana keadaan majlis kitaorg nanti? Both of us decide nk buat the simple one je tp aku rasa korg dh blh agak both majlis takkan jadi the simple one :/ (jika faham)

Those things really make me and my partner depressed. Celah mana nk cekau duit dalam masa terdekat? On our planning paling cepat blh nikah 2019, itu pn terpaksa savings guna level ikat perut. To be honest, I really need some advices, solutions or moral support from all of you. Mohon doa yg baik-baik daripada semua. Doakan aku dan pasangan aku kuat. Semoga ALLAH S,W.T permudahkan segala urusan kami. Thankyou for those who give me positive vibes. Salam sayang.

– Gadis Murung

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