Listen Up, Men: Stop Sacrificing Your Life for Women Who Won’t Remember Your Efforts
Let’s cut straight to the truth, brothers: stop sacrificing your happiness for a woman. It’s a losing game. Too many men pour their time, energy, and resources into women, hoping for gratitude or loyalty in return, only to realize too late that it was all for nothing.
Women are not wired to appreciate your sacrifices the way you think they will. They are wired to replace you the moment you’re no longer useful to them.
-Don’t Train Any Woman in School
This one is simple: if she’s not your wife, you have absolutely no business paying for her education. You think you’re securing her loyalty, but in reality, you’re building her up for another man.
Once she’s done using you as a stepping stone, she’ll find someone better—someone who didn’t sacrifice a dime for her success. Ask the countless men who have done it; they all learned the hard way. You are not a charity.
-Don’t Give a Woman a Life You Haven’t Given Yourself
How can you sacrifice your own comfort, dreams, and future for someone else? Before you start buying her the life of her dreams, ask yourself: have you built that same life for yourself? Are you living the way you want to live?
If not, why are you prioritizing her over you? Be selfish about your growth. Empower yourself first, and only help others when your own life is in order.
-Never Pedestalize a Woman
The moment you put a woman on a pedestal, you lose your power. She will sense your weakness and exploit it.
Treat her with respect, but don’t worship her. You’re the man, the leader, the prize—not her. Women are attracted to strength, not simps who bow down at their feet.
-Don’t Empower Any Woman Unless You’re 90x Better Than Her
If you’re not 10 steps ahead of her in every aspect of life—finances, mindset, discipline—don’t bother empowering her.
Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up to be left behind. Empowering a woman who’s not fully loyal to you is like handing a loaded gun to someone with shaky hands. Once she feels she’s “leveled up,” she won’t look back.
-Women Forget the Good You Did for Them
Here’s the bitter truth: women forget your sacrifices the moment they find a replacement. You could have given her the world, but she’ll only remember the one time you didn’t meet her expectations.
Women are emotionally driven, and they’ll hold on to the negatives while conveniently forgetting the good. This is why many men are left shocked and heartbroken when their so-called “loyal” partners leave them for someone else.
-A Woman’s Loyalty Is Not Guaranteed
Stop lying to yourself. A woman’s loyalty is conditional—dependent on your status, your resources, and her perception of what you can provide.
The moment you lose your footing, she’ll move on without a second thought. Men, never invest in a woman more than you can afford to lose.
-Count Everything You Do for a Woman as a Loss
This is the golden rule: whatever you give, write it off immediately. Never give a woman anything expecting gratitude, loyalty, or reciprocity.
Do it only if you can walk away without regret. Whether it’s money, time, or effort, treat it as a sunk cost. That way, when she inevitably moves on, you won’t be left bitter or broken.
-Build Yourself First
Listen, men: your first priority is you. Build your empire, focus on your goals, and secure your future. Women will always come and go, but your personal growth is what truly matters.
When you’re at the top, you’ll have options. The world respects men who prioritize themselves. Stop wasting your energy on ungrateful women who don’t see your value. Instead, focus on becoming the best version of yourself.
– Don’t sacrifice for a woman (Bukan nama sebenar)
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Bro banyak sangat dengar Andrew Tate dengan Azri Walter ni.
Woi makcik tua. Simpan la adik ku tu. Aku x ingin. Sian. Kita sebagai perempuan, kalo rasa nk jadi andartu jangan menyusahkan adik laki kau yang bodoh tu. Sampai tanggungjawab anak bini ke laut. Aku tau kau hodoh dan x laku. Tapi jangan nk jadi zalim sangat sampai rampas hak orang. Sudah la muka hodoh. Perangai pun zalim. Neraka la tempat kau si betina tua x laku. Dunia kau lepas la. Akhirat jangan mimpi. Sudah la tua tak laku. Hodoh pula tu. Bodoh agama. Miskin. Kesian. Susuai kau satu famili. Mereput la kau satu family. Nak mati esok2 ingat tau, aku x maaf. Sayonara family miskin.
Dah boleh kurangkan main tiktok bro
This confession is good, as a reminder to all men out there. Be the best version of yourself, so that your wife will not look down on you. Mcm abg saya, dia mmg kena buli dgn isteri dia, luka2, lebam sana sini & sy sendiri tak faham, kenapa dia masih nak bersama dgn isteri sebegini, pdhal bukan ada anak lagi pun. & i hope that he will read this confession. I already forwarded to him. Thumbs up!!!
incel vibe….lmao
Bang khemain kau nasihat.
Kau sebenarnya menyesal tak berjaya isterikan perempuan yang kau cinta.
Perempuan cantik ramai yang kahwin laki miskin laki tak guna sampai kena abused macam super model ZAHNITA tuh pon ramai bang.
Tapi kau punya loser, perempuan baik suka kat kau kau tak hargai.
Kau nak spend time pon tak mahu. Nak keluar duit minyak berjumpa pon tak mahu. Nak bagi nama ikatan sebagai kekasih pon berat. Padahal kau dah usung anak orang ke utara selatan ke gunung bukit Himalaya ku ikut kamu pon kau label KAWAN. Mana membe tak lari KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH
Pastu nak pujuk diri sendiri yang narcissistic tuh bagilah ucapan bodoh nasihat sampah dalam threads dalam TikTok dalam Instagram acah tersakiti dan galau.
Laki sebaya kau dah nikah ada anak bahagia.
Tak perlu seksa diri BERANGAN NAK JADI JUTAWAN HARTANAH pon KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH tapi hakikat hidup sendiri HAUK takdak perempuan nak pasal kau KEDEKUT semua aspek diri masa dan Wang. Seringghit pon kau berkira KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH
ORANG yang merempan pasal perempuan dan jodoh SEBENARNYA DIA TERDESAK NAK JODOH. Tapi sebab diri sendiri TOKSIK tahap nak jadikan kawan baik pon tak mampu. Inikan nak kahwin dengan kau mat!??????
Baiklah perempuan tuh cari laki lain kahwin dan dijaga elok ikut syarat Islam.
Kau nak perempuan tunggu kau dan SETIA sedangkan kau solat pon bolong bolong tak jaga. PEMALAS kerja …..
Asyik BERANGAN TAYANG FAKE LIFE DALAM TIKTOK THREADS DAN INSTAGRAM tapi perangai sebenarnya hauk.
Memang elok kau single SELAMA LAMANYA!
Bagus. Jangan bagi apa2 sama perempuan. Tuhan pon tak mahu beri apa sama jantan kepam tak bersyukur cam kau yang INSECURE tak percaya rezeki jodoh asyik bagi ALASAN…
Merempan nak perempuan LOYAL tapi masih single KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH KAH INSECURE!
Lelaki yang betul dan pasti akan berjaya dalam kerjaya dan hidup nih tak TERDESAK tulis nak pasangan setia dan tayang diri dalam social media. Lelaki yg betul focus nak berjaya DIAM BERUSAHA BETYLKAN DIRI.
Bukan jadi TOKSIK can kau hasut jantan lain jadi LOSERS FOREVER ALONE PENGECUT ama level cam kau
Misery love company kheunz kekdahnya?????? Tak mahu la deita seorang diri.
Acah terpaling English dah jantan focus. Padahal lelaki sejati sebaya kau elok ja HUBUNGAN sesama kawan, keluarga dan dah ada isteri anak
Hoh hoh hoh hoh setuju komen padu di atas. Sejibik sejibon kenalan gue guys. Terus gue share ini confessions sambil pesan baca komen guys. Komentar nya padu mantabbbbbbb!
Gue sama kenalan sekerja di agent realtor terimbas pada 1 new guy in our agent. Hobinya acah good life.Kami yang sedari remaja umur 20 tahun dulu sudah ke gym tak pernah upload di social media tunjuk terpaling gym rats.Tapi a new guy in our agent musibat dowh ….
Tak laku sedar diri mat.
Jangan jadi racun ajak laki lain jadi teruk cam lue.
Sembahyang tak buat.
Gym cukup waktu hoh hoh hoh hoh hoh hoh hoh memalukan betoi!
Baru dapat rezeki sikit dah jadi kedekut dan bakhil ajak jadi loser tak provide.
Kami gen Z tapi matang bro. Walau kami baru dalam dunia pekerjaan tapi kami banyak explore hidup bukan seperti lue udah masuk umur 30 tahun depan bermimpi hidup macam baru masuk 24 tahun seperti kami.
Bro kami belasan tahun dah bercinta sakit perit mengerti perempuan
Tapi bro tak sedar diri dah tua acah mampu ke gym mahal ke coffee house dan steak house dan bercuti overseas tak habis habis mentioned mahu life partner. Itu bukan mahu build diri sendiri.itu menipu dan self sabotaging hoho hoh tak slay bestie hauk!