Choose Yourself Before Any Woman

Listen Up, Men: Stop Sacrificing Your Life for Women Who Won’t Remember Your Efforts

Let’s cut straight to the truth, brothers: stop sacrificing your happiness for a woman. It’s a losing game. Too many men pour their time, energy, and resources into women, hoping for gratitude or loyalty in return, only to realize too late that it was all for nothing.

Women are not wired to appreciate your sacrifices the way you think they will. They are wired to replace you the moment you’re no longer useful to them.

-Don’t Train Any Woman in School

This one is simple: if she’s not your wife, you have absolutely no business paying for her education. You think you’re securing her loyalty, but in reality, you’re building her up for another man.

Once she’s done using you as a stepping stone, she’ll find someone better—someone who didn’t sacrifice a dime for her success. Ask the countless men who have done it; they all learned the hard way. You are not a charity.

-Don’t Give a Woman a Life You Haven’t Given Yourself

How can you sacrifice your own comfort, dreams, and future for someone else? Before you start buying her the life of her dreams, ask yourself: have you built that same life for yourself? Are you living the way you want to live?

If not, why are you prioritizing her over you? Be selfish about your growth. Empower yourself first, and only help others when your own life is in order.

-Never Pedestalize a Woman

The moment you put a woman on a pedestal, you lose your power. She will sense your weakness and exploit it.

Treat her with respect, but don’t worship her. You’re the man, the leader, the prize—not her. Women are attracted to strength, not simps who bow down at their feet.

-Don’t Empower Any Woman Unless You’re 90x Better Than Her

If you’re not 10 steps ahead of her in every aspect of life—finances, mindset, discipline—don’t bother empowering her.

Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up to be left behind. Empowering a woman who’s not fully loyal to you is like handing a loaded gun to someone with shaky hands. Once she feels she’s “leveled up,” she won’t look back.

-Women Forget the Good You Did for Them

Here’s the bitter truth: women forget your sacrifices the moment they find a replacement. You could have given her the world, but she’ll only remember the one time you didn’t meet her expectations.

Women are emotionally driven, and they’ll hold on to the negatives while conveniently forgetting the good. This is why many men are left shocked and heartbroken when their so-called “loyal” partners leave them for someone else.

-A Woman’s Loyalty Is Not Guaranteed

Stop lying to yourself. A woman’s loyalty is conditional—dependent on your status, your resources, and her perception of what you can provide.

The moment you lose your footing, she’ll move on without a second thought. Men, never invest in a woman more than you can afford to lose.

-Count Everything You Do for a Woman as a Loss

This is the golden rule: whatever you give, write it off immediately. Never give a woman anything expecting gratitude, loyalty, or reciprocity.

Do it only if you can walk away without regret. Whether it’s money, time, or effort, treat it as a sunk cost. That way, when she inevitably moves on, you won’t be left bitter or broken.

-Build Yourself First

Listen, men: your first priority is you. Build your empire, focus on your goals, and secure your future. Women will always come and go, but your personal growth is what truly matters.

When you’re at the top, you’ll have options. The world respects men who prioritize themselves. Stop wasting your energy on ungrateful women who don’t see your value. Instead, focus on becoming the best version of yourself.

– Don’t sacrifice for a woman (Bukan nama sebenar)

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