Assalamualaikum in advance kpd semua yang akan baca confession ni. Kalau boleh tolong baca sampai habis. Siapa tahu netflix series yang baru keluar ’13 reasons why’ tu? Utk sesiapa yg tertanya tanya apa benda alah ni – its about a girl who committed suicide bcs of some reasons that happened in her life. Okay sebenarnya aku pun tak tgk lagi cerita tu tapi macam cliche kan? Fyi i will not write about that series though.
‘Suicide’ satu perkataan yang boleh membawa maut but still majority are not taking this seriously and even make jokes out of it. Trust me it is not funny when you was in her/his place. Tapi aku bukan nak cerita pasal orang yg ada suicidal thought ni instead aku nak cerita pasal orang sekeliling.
Okay okay lek luuu YES aku tahu suicide atau bunuh diri ni haram dalam Islam tapi kau ingat orang yang nak commite benda ni fikiran dia masih lagi waras ke? Kalau waras takdalah dia buat benda berdosa ni. Sorry tapi tolong jgn jadi judgemental sangat lah bro and sistur sekalian. Hmmm banyak faktor yang boleh contribute to the ending of once life cthnya result periksa, insecurities, depression or anxiety tu belum masuk cara dia pulak. I think you could list a bunch yourself so aku tak yah lah nak list kan panjang panjang.
Alright lets begin shall we! Apa yang kita boleh buat utk tolong mereka mereka ni? First, kalau kau rasa kawan kau macam ada masalah atau tgh sedih why not kau dtg dekat dia tanya dia okay ke tak. Lepas tu slow slow kau korek lah apa masalah dia come on lah ni common sense kot tapi kau jgn pulak jual masalah dia dkt org lain ni namanya nak tolong kawan tu mati cepat. Ni tak kawan tgh depressed lagi kau tinggalkan dia deal sorang sorang. Trust me she just need somebody to talk to. It really helps sebab aku sendiri lega kalau dapat share masalah dkt orang lain. A simple ‘are you okay?’ Can be a life saver.
Next, be aware of changes that people around you had.Parents and friends take note to this. Org yg ada suicidal thoughts ni depan depan kau memang dia lah orang yg paling happy go lucky sekali bcs a smile can hide so much pain kan tapi bila dia sorang sorang? Fyi time dia sorang sorang ni lah banyak benda yg dia fikir. Our own thought is a scary place. Perubahan mcm mana yg aku maksudkan? Kalau kau tgk dia cam tak selera nak makan especially perempuan yelah perempuan kan suka makan mesti ada something wrong with her tapi kau jgn pulak approach kawan kau yg tgh diet memang dia tabur makanan tu atas kepala kau. Ni biasanya jadi dekat rumah. ibu atau ayah mesti perasan kalau anak dia tak selera nak mkn ataupun mata bengkak sebab hari hari menangis or you see cuts through her/his skin.
Last but not least bro and sis, watch out for what you going to say or do. This is the most important things ever. It really hurt people when you say something offensive. Nak nak yang condemn phyical or appearance orang lain. Contoh member kau ada yg pendek tak payah rasanya kau nak kecilkan hati dia sebab dia sendiri tahu apa kekurangan yg dia ada. Kau dapat apa bila kau ckp mcm tu? Kepuasan? Then screw you sbb sorry to say you are not even human. I know semua point yg di point out kan mcm minor things kan tapi you can really see the impact if you do it.
Okay sebelum aku habis, to anyone yg sdg baca ni dan tgh mengalami depressed atau ada terfikir pasal ‘bunuh diri’ please seek for help. Alaa confesser benda ni cliche kot semua org dah tahu but please try im begging you bcs it really worth it if you try. Kau akan dapat balik hope yg hilang tu dan dekatkan diri dengan Pencipta .Suicide is not an option for someone to end their life. For people around, dont wait until it is too late to help cause believe me you will regret it. Always remember there is someone out there who loves you and go exploring the world bcs it is beautiful with you in it. You can talk to me and i will reach to you from the comment section. When no one care please remeber that I care.
– A girl who care
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