Assalamualaikum nama saya Amelia (BNS). Before i dive into the tips and tricks on how to move on, i’m gonna explain first few things. Let’s be honest lah kan couple is haram and everyone ignores the fact that it is haram and do it anyway including me that’s why i had to go through that “moving on” phase.
Let’s see it like this lah kan kita ignore benda haram macam tak minum arak, tak makan babi tapi kita couple. (Ha mari lah kita sesama brain benda tu jap), jadi bila kita buat benda tak elok there is always a price to pay or a consequences to face.
Jadi bila kita broken hearted, your soul is hurting, your soul is tired, your soul is dehydrated and nothing NOTHING can heal or feed the thirst of your soul except the remembrance of Allah. So here are my tips and what i did that healed me completely and now i feel better than ever.
1) Sempurna solat bagi sesiapa yang tak solat, mula kan solat. Yang dah solat, sempurna kan solat korang. Take time in your solat baca elok2. Allah bagi korang masa tapi kenapa korang tak boleh bagi masa dekat Allah walau beberapa minit.
2) Lepas solat doa. Doa dengan ikhlas NEVER underestimate doa korang. I have seen my doa dimakbulkan sekelip mata. (Doa senjata umat islam) yakin dengan doa dan jangan putus asa
3) Lepas doa cakap dengan Allah. stay duduk atas sejadah cakap mengadu menangis dekat Allah. Mengadu dekat Allah because trust me no one no human cares about your problems as much as Allah does. Allah yang bagi korang ujian tu and only Allah can take you out of it. Also sangka baik dengan Allah
4) Istighfar ( astarghfirullahalazim ) banyak2. 100 or 5000 sehari tak kisah tapi istighfar sebab bila istighfar, insyaAllah dosa kita diampunkan and the sky will open up and rain for you. Allah will appoint a way out of your problems. Rezeki jugak bertambah. Banyak benefits kalau istighfar boleh check dekat google or youtube kalau nak tahu lebih lanjut.
5) Sedekah. Sedekah banyak2 korang sebab there is happiness in seeing others happy because of you. Korang ringan kan beban orang lain and insyaAllah Allah ringankan beban korang.
6) Baca Quran and bukan sahaja baca fahamkan maksud al quran. You will be surprised with the messages that the Quran is trying to tell you. Kadang2 rasa mcm sangat kena dengan situasi and mcm Allah is comforting through the ayat of Quran
Okay tu je… Harap tips ni berguna kepada korang and assalamualaikum.
– Amelia
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