assalamualaikum sis,
hahaha..saya gelak mula2 masa baca awak punya confession. well sis, don't worry much since i am a chubby girl too tho. haha, probably you don't know who am i.
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first of all, i just want to ask u, what are the purposes of being skinny, cekeding girl?
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as for me, i always ask myself that kind of question. i dont even have a solid reason for that. btw, one of my answer was 'i wanna be looked good, confidence enough with good dress, blouse'.. well it looks cool .isnt' it?..haha..tp kan, ada je fesyen yang sesuai utk gadis chubby macam kita. cuma sis kena pandai cari,jenis baju yang sesuai, material kain, waarna jugak memainkan peranan yang penting. even my friends told me that i am looking good in whatever i am in, it means walaupun saya gemuk, tapi saya tekankan jugak bab2 ni. tapi, sis x perlu pun nak gi beli baju baru, cuma sis kena sesuaikan baju yang sis pakai dengan occasion etc.
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sebab yang kedua,mungkin sis rase kawan2 sis dah berpunya (probably! idk either) and sis rase rendah diri…INI ADALAH ASSUMPTION SEMATA2 berdasarkan pengalaman saya. i have this sort of mindset..lol..kawan2 kurus tinggi, cantik cun melecun, whereas, i am a 'teddy bear'.. well, sis, u don't have to worry much about this…banyak mana pun bf yang kawan sis ada tu, ended up dia kahwin dengan sorg lelaki jer..hahah…*jahat punya org, jealous*..mesti ada punya lelaki yang ikhlas menerima sis. u just need to wait and pray for the right person. in the meantime, perbaiki diri, dekatkan diri dengan Allah. what can we expect, if we are away from ALlah and want someone who is close to Him. impossible!!!!..btw sis, gadis gemuk ni dah dilamar org. kami menunggu masa untuk habiskan pengajian kami dan berfikir untuk ke next step.moga2 tiada halangan.
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dia hotstuff kt uni dia (x penting pun).kami kenal pun sbb kami under the same scholarship. saya pernah tanya dia 'x kisah ke nak kahwin dengan org gemuk mcm saya?'. dia cakap 'it doesn't even bother me, saya x kisah pun kalau awak berisi sikit (bahasa yg lebih sopan..haha)'..so, i just hope he meant it.haha..
sis, u dont have to worry about this much. semoga sis berjaya menurunkan berat badan.sy x pernah berjaya turunkan berat badan tho..it's not about losing weight, it's about being healthy..saya doakan sis berjayaaaaaa.. :) salam sayang dari saya
sekian.
– fr