Hi. Aku nak beritahu awal2 aku juga pendidik di sebuah tadika. Ok?
Harini adik perempuan aku umur 7 tahun balik teresak esak menangis sebab katanya cikgu tarik pipi dia dan telinga dia sebab tak tahu buat kerja sekolah. At first we are okay, tak apa la kena marah sikit cubit sikit, then she can learn better and dapat kurangkan her mistake after this. Then she pun okay.
But..the day after tomorrow benda sama berulang lagi.. so my mom and me just advise her again that its okay, dont be scared this part of learning. Your teacher nak you belajar jadi pandai.. She listened to us and still buat keja cikgu tu even thats hard.. i tell her its okay to make mistakes..
And then, jeng jeng benda berlanjutan.. sampai satu tahap adik aku balik rumah pipi merah kinda bengkak sebelah! Aku sabar lagi ni.. mak aku dah sedih.. Aku tanya adik, what happened with your cheek? Katanya cikgu cubit sebab tak reti buat addition.. i asked her very very hard is it true your teacher buat? Not your friends? Aku pun taknak salahkan cikgu sebab aku sendiri tak melihat kejadian.. Shes crying and tell me that she isnt lied.. I decided to ask her classmate yang duduk berdekatan.. A boy.. I asked sama ada betul atau tidak my sister kena sekian sekian and he tell me that is the truth.. Infact not only for her.. Ramai lagi classmates yang kena.. The h***
.. I decided to shut the f up dulu sebab aku pendidik jugak so i tried to understand this situation..
3 days after that.. guess what? Taraaaa her left cheek pulak yang merah dan quite bengkak.. and ada kesan kuku ya? Aku taknak judge since dia diam je and tak beritahu aku anything so aku diam.. Malam tu aku ajar dia buat homework and i asked her very gently about her cheek.. she looked at me and end up crying telling me about her mathematics teacher keep on cubit her cheek.. Aku mendidih dah ni.. Kenapa menggunakan cara yang macam tu?! Kekerasan bukan cara mendidik!
Now i dont know what to do.. I asked sama ada she want me to go and meet her teacher but she tell me “No, dont. If you go and meet her, she will hate me” I touched.. And im scared she will lost her spirit.. Allah…
Cikgu.. Saya juga pendidik.. Saya tegaskan bahawa kita takperlu menggunakan kekerasan dalam mendidik.. Jangan mencubit sesuka hati awak! Mungkin cikgu nampak cubitan tu sikit sahaja tapi adik saya mempunyai kulit yang sangat sensitif.. Dia juga selalu mempunyai ulser.. Just imagine how hurt she is.. Jika seseorang murid melakukan kesilapan sehingga hilang kesabaran cikgu, istighfar cikgu.. Anak2 zaman ini perlu di didik dari hati, bukan didikan suara sahaja.. Saya hormat cikgu.. Tapi tolong hormati juga anak2 murid cikgu..
– Adl.
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