#wespoilourmentoomuch

#wespoilourmentoomuch

tajuk yang confirm sangat kontrovesi, tapi sebab i am malay, and not really exposed to other culture, so i speak on behalf of my race, yes! lelaki melayu :)

1. house choresssss.
tak dinafikan, after this mesti ramai yang kata lelaki pun boleh masak laa, kemas rumah laa etc etc etc…., kemain berapi cakap/claim pandai itu ini,zaman bujang kat kolej/rumah sewa/uni buat macam2, dah awat xbuat pun bila duk rumah?
"oh, mak/kakak/adik perempuan kan ada" bila dah kahwin, tukar statement pulak.."isteri kan ada.."
ohh, it means men can get their rest when women are around..heh, dah tu yg women, xpayah rest langsung, yes, we are bionic and we are not human at all -.-
~walk the talk bro~~~

2. education
since primary school dah perasan benda ni, boys' standard always lower than girls, sebab nak bagi balance kelas/ sekolah,
cth; girls need to have their grade much higher than 95% while boys just need 90% to get first class, why?
"oh, budak laki banyak main, lelaki ni lambat sikit etc etc etc"
bila kene kat girls je…
"try harder, ur other girls friend can perform well, why not u?"
bila berjaya
"wahhh, hebat lah boys ni bole perform, susah nak tengok boys dpt result macam ni etc etc etc"
and girls be like
"biasalaa, girls kan pandai & cepat belajar, how about their other friends?"
perghh,kene compare lg -.-
-girls, u need to study hard, study more be outstanding and wajib masuk dapur, duhhh, how ironi~~~

3. attitude
xnak cakap banyak, just nak sentuh satu aspect je; SOPAN
i- sopan dengan masa
cth: bila masuk uni, yg paling lambat/x attend kelas tu mesti lelaki,
tapi org akan respond "biasala tuu, lelaki memang selalu lambat.."
but kalau perempuan lambat, kemain kecam kat tudung laa, make up laa etc etc etc,
please gentlemen, as long u are muslim and human being, please be responsible with ur time, ada 24 jam je sehari and everyone get the same amount of time, and we dont have/get an extra time to wait for u
ii- sopan dengan kata2
come on guys,mencarut is not our style, regardless men or women, muslim or not, but usually org akan amek kisah bila dengar girls mencarut, and boys be like ~~biasalahh, lelaki~~ [facepalm]- mencarut tak melambangkan langsung yg korg gentlemen, and oh yeah, i think being gentlemen does not mean it applicable to certain time or people (sebab ada certain org dia selective gentlemen,urghh,fake sngt =.=)
iii- sopan dengan badan
a) pakaian; haihh, geleng kepala tengok trend skang =.=
b) kesihatan; awat laa liat sngt nak pi hospital bila sakit, xpayah nak tunjuk kuat sngt, and kalau dah dapat ubat tu, makan laa!
ayat biasa pakcik2 "ni first time pakcik masuk hospital, selama ni xpenah sakit,hospital pun x pernah jejak etc etc etc"
kajian menunjukkan lelaki sngt tinggi ego nya terhadap diri sendiri in seeking for medical advice- sebab tu laa kat ward general ramai pesakit lelaki

*so lets break the norm!
kepada ibu yang ada anak2 lelaki, and kakak kepada adik2 lelaki anda, jom educate them together to create a better imam
and kepada lelaki2 di luar sana, xlambat untuk anda berubah and kalau xnak berubah pun, jangan jadi lebih teruk dah laa

self-claimed by one of my lecturer,a malay gentleman
"lelaki melayu ni bodoh sombong"
so to malay guys out there, prove us that u are not! ;D

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