Sorry saya tak ada story yg nak saya kongsikan disini, tapi I just wanna post on why interactions online is much much better than interactions in real life. Mgkn tak semua kat sini setuju, tapi ini pada pendapat saya bagi orang2 yang sangat awkward, dan susah nak berinteraksi dngn orang2 di sekeliling (yes, even if i want to!)
Why interactions online is better than interactions irl:
**irl=in real life
1. You dont have to look decent to talk to people (most important thing, at least for ugly ass people like me )
2. You have time to type in your answer, ponder on what consequences it might have on you when sent, (irl, you dont have time to think of your words or actions, you might accidentally hurt people's feeling that way)
3. You don't always have to force yourself to laugh, people wouldn't know anyway. (Irl, the most awkward thing is two person who barely know each other and an awkward joke, mix em together, and that's a recipe for a disaster)
4. You can always type an extra or more 'ha' on your 'haha' to indicate that this person's funny and you appreciate their joke or you're just trying to be nice
5. You can always say something, and put jk to cancel out what you've just said. In another words, you can test their reactions. Lmao.
6. No awkward silences. (Tho I dont really mind not talking to people while we're both in the same room)
7. When being hurt, you dont have to look so miserable in front of people. You can always type in something to cover up how miserable atm you are. (Irl, you'd glow thick red if you were humiliated while being in company of many people)
This is the 7 things I can think of. Tell me if you guys can at least relate to one of them.
If you guys can relate to all 7, it simply means that you are not a confident person, gets nervous alot of time and plain awkward. Pardon my grammar errors and apa2 yang salah type eh ^^
– Yan
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Kelemahannya adalah: awak akan low self- confidence.. sy juga jenis yg ala2 introvert (sy kurang peramah nk mulakan prcakapan, malas nk brgaul mesra dgn org lain and x ada tmpt nk luahkn semua bnda dlm kepala .. and yes, online confession truly helps).. tp at the same time, sy jenis lepas ckp.. apa yg sy x puas hati, sy ckp direct.. kdg2 kita kena luahkn kpd org lain (it feels different..) face to face interaction buatkn kita belajar utk jaga hati org lain, jaga prcakapan, be responsive and empathy to others.. so, skrang sy sedang cuba utk lebih trbuka brgaul dgn org lain..
Kuchai Khusyairi
As an anti-social or even in a better term, introvert..I do agree with some of your points but, nak tak nak real life is what we really have. Kat dalam internet ni memang la semua nampak baik sebab tak nampak muka. Tapi dunia sebenar kita taktau, dan kalau ada apa2 kesusahan, kita nakkan orang yg dalam real life juga bantu kita. Tapi bila orang tak kenal kita, macam mana dia nak tolong kita? start communicate with people in real life too. Memang awkward, I feel you but.. inilah yg orang panggil kemahiran bersosial. You will never be a person that you want to be kalau you keep being a shadow. Ni nasihat utk diri saya jugak. It’s hard to be an introvert T.T
Nanti camane nak mahirkan soft skill,social skills kalau takde real life interaction. Confidence pun kurang. Bila interview,kenapa boss minta kita datang instead of Skype call,agaknya.
yaa… saya pun rasa macam tu.. tapi kelemahannya sekarang saya tak reti bercakap.. huhu..