Hi Lutfi,
I would like to apologise on behalf of your ex-girlfriend. I am sorry that you have to encounter that kind of experience. I hope that you would forgive your ex-girlfriend sincerely from the bottom of your heart. I do not think that your action of sleeping with a lot of call girl is wrong, (call me unIslamic, that’s okay). In fact, I think that your action is holier compared to you going and *sleep (read: have sex) with any random girls on the street. At least, when you hire a sex service, you do not contribute to the increasing number of children born out of wedlock. Thank you.
Now, I want you to listen to me. Try and have a look at that situation in another way. What if your ex-girlfriend didn’t leave you? Will you stay the same? Or will you improve to be a better person? Will your ex-girlfriend stays faithful to you even if you were to marry one another? Think about it yourself. You have the answer to these questions.
I personally do not believe that you hate/loathe women in general. I have a strong feeling that you only hate your ex-girlfriend.
Next, I do not agree regarding your acts to people of whom you consider as stupid. I understand your frustrations. I also find someone that merely talks without any concrete facts (and believes in the cult) is ridiculous, but never stupid. Also, I’d highly recommend you to mingle with intellectuals, as this will help you to neutralise your superiority complex. Being knowledgeable should make you realise that the more you learn, the more you realise how much you don’t know.
(I do not dare to comment on your marriage matters. Therefore, I’ll stay away from this topic.)
Lutfi, if you find it hard to change. Ask your mother to make a prayer for you. Consider yourself lucky to still have a mother, for a mother’s prayer is the key to God’s blessing in life. I also would like you to know that it is never about, “You are human, therefore you are flawed”, instead it actually is:
“You are flawed, therefore you are human, Lutfi”.
“Anda ada kekurangan, oleh itu anda adalah manusia, Lutfi.”
– Nurul Aina
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